One of the most recent comments that I got in this blog states what a big smug I am for being obsessed with my own child as though I am the only in this whole world that has a kid.
I don’t usually discuss what my commenters say unless they are those from extreme nincompoops. This one has got me thinking. Instead of being obsessed with a child why not get obsessed with more children?
Jeng Jengggg Jengggggggggg….
Azman and I have been thinking about the second lil monster for over a year already. And like before we or shall I say me.. is being very vigilant and calculative about all our life factors for example time and financial. I have all this questions appearing in my head like an illuminating light bulb over and over again.
When do I plan to deliver the baby? I’d like my babies to be born in the first quarter of the year.
What is the workload at the office at that time?
Do we have any other projects that we would be working on during the 9 + 2 months (pregnancy + pantang) such as pindah rumah, home renovations, pre-planned vacations etc?
Is Miki ready for an adik?
Are we ready for the adik?
AM I READY TO GET VERY SICK AND FAT AND HUNGRY AND FAT AND MEROYAN?
Not that I am not perpetually meroyan all year round but.. hehehe
If only homo sapiens’ gestational period is one or two months only and by the end of the 8th week, it’s time to hit the labour room and pop the baby out. If that’s the case, I think we probably have 3 kids already!
For most women, the delivery of the baby, be it normal or caesarian is the most tormenting part in childbearing but to me it’s the 9 months of nurturing a human being inside my tummy.
I still remember my experiences during my pregnancy and many are not so pleasant. First of all I was feeling sick for the whole 9 months, everlastingly nauseous and tired, my work at the office was pretty massive and my boss at that time wasn’t exactly easy to work with. Azman’s car was in bad condition thus we had to carpool to work Putrajaya/Bangi and when I had to work late hours Azman had to wait for me until wee hours in the morning and this caused stress in the both of us. The stress. I remember the 9 month stress. I hate it when I am stressed.
But please don’t get me wrong, being pregnant was an amazing experience for me and even when Miki was still a tiny fetus within by body, I have already fallen so much in love with him. The pregnancy has given Azman and I a chance to better understand ourselves and each other. The pregnancy has changed us tremendously, whether or not Azman wants to admit it, he has become such a wonderful person (husband&father) and no longer the bad tempered person he used to be. Me? It changed the way I looked at myself; I have become more confident, matured, less unnecessarily sensitive and appreciative towards my body more than ever before.
I must say the pregnancy and the baby has made our love grew much stronger. Azman and I. Daddy and Mummy to Miki.
And now that the lil chickadee is turning three, the perpetually ferocious eating monster will bound to make a comeback! Next year. Insya Allah! Roaarrr!!
Teka-teki : cuba cari mana aku dalam gambar di atas. Pemenang dapat DVD Player Panasonic.
pakai cap! haha…
tapi bukan. rambut akak panjang! so bukan yg pakai cap tuu…
sebuta2 mata aku.. aku tak nampak sesiapa pakai cap pun dalam gambar tu… cuba ko terangkan dari kiri orang yg ke berapa?
kalau tak bole obses dgn anak sendiri nak obses dgn anak sape? aku yg takde ni terpaksa la obses dgn anak buah aku. mungkin org yg tak obses dgn anak dia tu sbb anak dia tak comel atau dia sendiri tak sanggup tengok muka anak dia. dan kalau dia tak de anak, dia tak obses dgn anak anak sedara dia sbb anak sedara dia semua tak comel dan apatah lagi sepengomen yg tidak obses itu.
gambo nih aku yang tangkap.. aku layak dicalonkan tak?
cuma kalau hang peknan sila patuhi larangan ini:
1) jgn soh aku tapau makanan (menu hang melampau)
2) jgn paw makanan aku (karang tak cukup utk portion aku)
3) jgn paksa aku makan skali dgn hang (kerana hang akan buat aku turut kembang)
4) kalau aku keluar lunch hang jangan ikut (mileage hang slow)
ini saja pesanan aku buat masa ini
bani,
hey mangkak! apakah maksud mileage slow? maksud hang speed berjalan aku low kah??? hishhh cakap macam kel
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ejam,
tahniah! aku nampak sungguh chantek dalam gambar ni. aku calonkan ko ratu kebaya cyberjaya 2011.
ya…hang jalan sangat slow tapi nafsu menjelajah ke segala pelusuk tempat meninggi. aku ngeri mengenangkan saat itu. ngeri ngeri ngeriiiiiiiii
Hehehehe pregnant again, mmg kan. grrrrrrrrrrrrrr, i know what you mean. I pun mcm dah tak nak je lagi, but my hubby nak lagi, so give it a try again la. Good luck to you next year, lain pregnant, lain situation dia, hopefully the coming one less stressfull.
dont tell me u’re the one yg pakai skirt tu? hehehee…
do consider 2nd miki… just imagine 2 mikis in da house..cute..cute..cute… hehehe…
the one yang paling kanan dalam pagar mengadap keluar 😉
p/s: kalau kite x obses dgn anak sendiri, sape lagi, kan? orang yg ckp tuh xde anak nak obses kot except for her/his anak tekak ajo. hehehe 😉
Yang tengah cekak pinggang tu! Muahaha.
Wuhu 2nd Miki!
wahh..2nd miki..cuteness overload laa..
yg pakai skirt tu!! awat caption gmbr diyana gemuk??
yang belah kanan kan pakai cap….
yg pakai skirt..kanan skali
oii..ape sume org nak mengandung nih..
kawan-kawan sekalian,
caption gambar ‘diyana gemuk’ kerana akulah yg memakai skirt bercardigan putih, berbetis batang kelapa, berpinggang tong tersebut.
kenangan mengandungkan miki 9 bulan (skirt pendek tetappp digayakan). andainya ada rezeki aku mengandung lagi, adakah aku bisa kurus semula seperti kandungan pertama?? jikalau tidak, aku hanya mampu pasrah dengan badan bak gajah! *pengsan*
Diyana, aku belom pregnant tapi badan dah sama dgn gajah ni cemane? Arghhhhh!!!!
nak pandangan depan plak 😛
mini miki! bestnya! can’t wait 🙂
yang tengah cekak pinggang? I think that’s you!
p/s : I’m 2 months pregnant now. Though it’s a great torture, but I love the attention especially from my other kids & hubby. Masa ni, mintak makan apa pun dapat..hihihi…
Ohhh yang pakai skirt tu kerr. Saya ingatkan yg tengah cekak pinggang tu. Mungkin itu shanana.
itu rena ..bukan shanana la ayaq..!! tapi itu back view..kalo front view tak dapat bayangkan la diyana gundu sebesar mana..haha =P
Haha oo ye ke mana saya nak tau! hahaha.
🙂
i think what made you even a more wonderful person now diyana is giving birth to miki…
All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That’s his. ~Oscar Wilde, The Importance of Being Earnest, 1895
p/s: no one does the “cekak pingang” with a slight bend on the knee like you diyana…itu adalah trademark DIVA dan DRAMA QUEEN *and i’m not even wearing my glasses when i was looking at ur pic*